By Neill Dunbar, Mission Partner in Cambodia
Neill and Rebekah serve the Anglican Church in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. They are excited to see what God has in store for this beautiful country as they serve and disciple members of the developing church. Their children are Jonathan, Aaron and Emily. Cambodia stands as a nation with a rich yet painful history, now experiencing a new chapter of spiritual growth. For those of us serving as Mission Partners, this journey is a delicate balance between trusting in God’s sovereign work and embracing our responsibility as His representatives. As the Apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 3:6–7, “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth.” This truth anchors us. It is solely God who grows His Kingdom, yet He graciously calls us to be His “masks,” as Martin Luther put it—visible representatives working in line with His will, reflecting His character, and giving Him glory through His Son. The Spiritual Landscape of Cambodia At the start of 2023, Cambodian Christians celebrated 100 Years of Christianity, a landmark event attended by the then Prime Minister Hun Sen. He acknowledged, “This gathering is a demonstration of the progress of Christianity in Cambodia under the shade of peace.” Just a few years earlier, Franklin Graham—son of the renowned evangelist Billy Graham—held a two-night outreach event in Phnom Penh, drawing more than 23,000 attendees and witnessing 1,700 people respond to the Gospel message. Reflecting on these moments, it is unimaginable to me where this country has come from.
Forty years ago, following the Khmer Rouge regime in 1979, fewer than 200 Christians remained in Cambodia. Evangelism was forbidden, and believers often faced intense persecution in a society dominated by Buddhism. However, with the return of foreign aid workers and missionaries, the church here has gradually grown.
While believers remain careful not to upset governmental authorities, there is a newfound sense of wider tolerance—and even public acknowledgement! The recent annual Water Festival even featured a float bearing a cross, a sight that would have been unthinkable not long ago. Despite this progress, the road ahead remains challenging. The ‘Prosperity Gospel’ has taken root, offering false hope to those desperate to escape poverty. Family expectations also weigh heavily, as many parents push their children toward lucrative careers rather than time-consuming church involvement. Additionally, cultural pressure to participate in Buddhist rituals adds another layer of complexity for new believers. Our Responsibility Versus God’s Sovereignty In light of these challenges, we often reflect on our role versus God’s. What is our responsibility in this mission, and what belongs solely to Him? When we reflect on that verse in 1 Corinthians 3, our part is clear: to love God and serve Him faithfully in whatever circumstances He places us—whether with our children, colleagues, or the Khmer community. There’s always more to do, always another need to meet, which can feel overwhelming at times. Yet, prayer keeps us centred, helping us rely on God’s plans rather than on our own strength. Meeting with others—hearing their stories, joys, and struggles—also grounds us. It reminds us that while we plant seeds and water them, it is ultimately God who causes the growth. Sitting down and hearing stories from others shows what God has already been doing without us. As the Corinthians passage says, “…neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth.” Seeing God’s Faithfulness in Cambodia One clear example of God’s work is Hope School, which began 20 years ago with just a few families. Today, it serves nearly 300 students, many of whom would be unable to remain in Cambodia without the quality education the school provides. This has enabled mission families to continue their work without compromising their children’s schooling.
Another source of encouragement is the Phnom Penh Bible School. The students there inspire us with their eagerness to return to their home provinces and share the Gospel. Surprisingly (or maybe not!), most of them dislike city life and feel a strong calling to serve in their rural communities, where the needs are often greater.
Our faith is also bolstered by stories of resilience, many of which contain suffering beyond what we could often imagine. A friend recently shared how he survived the Khmer Rouge regime as a child labourer. He mentioned once that he can’t drink coffee. Naively thinking it was a taste preference, I asked him why not, and he said it was because he was forced to eat only leaves at the labour camp, and his internal organs had been damaged. Out of 200 workers, only he and one other boy made it out alive. Despite this unimaginable suffering, his passion for the Gospel remains unshaken—a powerful reminder of God’s sustaining grace. The Challenges and Joys of Serving in Cambodia While physical hardships—such as extreme heat, power cuts, and limited resources—are real, the relational struggles weigh heaviest on us. Over the years, we’ve faced the heartbreak of seeing close friends leave, sometimes unexpectedly. We’ve witnessed relationships break down, causing negative ripple effects throughout the community here. There’s also the ongoing challenge of knowing how best to love and support those in need. Financial aid isn’t always the answer, and we constantly wrestle with how to offer genuine help that empowers. Yet, there is much that brings us joy. Most importantly, a strong circle of trusted friends. We do not feel isolated and feel at peace with where God has placed us and what He has called us to do. Although I will say I do crave a really good NZ pie at times! Prayer Points for Cambodia As we continue this journey, we ask for your prayers:
- For more Khmer workers to rise up and join the harvest. Many feel the pull of higher-paying jobs, making full-time ministry a difficult choice.
- For gratitude as we praise God for the increased freedom Christians have to share their faith, and the government’s more favourable stance.
- For wisdom as we navigate how to serve and support the people here in a way that honours God and truly benefits those around us.
Ultimately, we trust in God’s work, even when we cannot see the full picture. As Jesus said in John 5:17, “My Father is always at his work to this very day, and I too am working.” It is our privilege to serve as His hands and feet, pointing others to the One who alone gives the growth. This article was taken from our 2025 Annual Report titled “God’s Unstoppable Kingdom”. You can read it here.
Thank you, Tessa. I remember Ray (and Jean) very warmly from our time at St Tim’s before we left for St John’s College at the beginning of 1987, and was excited many years later to learn of their visit to the Elliotts in Uganda. (We visited them in 1997 on study leave.) That visit, and a later one, showed their quiet growth in faith and mission during the years. I praise God for Ray’s life and service, and pray for the Comforter’s presence to be so close to Jean.
Hey there,
A friend of mine told me about you guys and I’d love to come along on Monday!
Cheers,
Caleb Croker
Hi Caleb, I’ve just seen your message. I apologise that this was missed. I assume you’re talking about the Seriously Interested in Mission group? The next one is August 11 and we’d love you to join. Can you email us at office@nzcms.org.nz (Rosie writing here)
Thank you Tessa
Thank you Archdeacon Fran. Mothers Union appreciated your input when we visited the Far North recently. Your wisdom and wise counsel made it a memorable weekend. God bless you in your new role.
Rev Fran, you and Rapiata are a gift to the Church. May the Lord bless you as you serve in this next season
With reference to the article ‘By invitation not invasion’. My husband and I were involved with CMS from the 1960s onward and this was always the attitude of CMS leadership. They deferred to the church leadership opinions whenever possible, wherever there was a local church. I’m not aware if this has change. It isn’t something new.
Hi Pauline,
I agree with you!! I don’t think this has changed, just good to re-iterate why and we send mission partners. This is Rosie writing — hope you’re doing well!
Yes Pauline it was the same for Alan and me. When we went to Singapore 1966–69 it was in response to a request from the Bishop oof Singapore and Malaya.